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Also, you have men whom will only have sex, but not take responsibility for their actions, thus leaving the poor woman to make life changing decisions, decisions that are beyond a woman whom is too young to make any such decision at that tender age. Also, with men, they have a strong sexual drive at the teenage years of their life, so to be around woman in this sense is to surely cause intercourse, thus sexual exploitations to happen at an early age. It is somewhat lessened due to Allah creating each gender to have sexual peaks at different stages of our lives. When a young man is sexually frustrated and "so-called" needs to have such release from his body in the form of sexual intercourse, he will do almost anything he can do achieve this, I know, as I was in this state when I was young and a non-believer in Islamic Monotheism.

Men are like a kind of Predator to woman when they are young and sexually driven by their hormones. Also if one is rejected by someone of the opposite sex, it grows on them, some can handle such emotions, but most of us have it scar our lives permanently, thus conditioning our very being. Some men get frustrated and kind of angry at such rejection and become violent, this is where rape and murder are a permanent feature on our morning and evening papers. But it is Allah's Will (Insha Allah) whom he puts together as partners for life.

(Husband and Wife) We spend the first part of our lives trying to be accepted by someone other then our Parents, but in the same way as our Parents did/do, this being totally loved and accepted for who we are inside and out. This is why it has been asked upon for men and woman to wait and marry the one they are truly in love with before any such sexual activity should occur. When you are older you have more control on your body and emotions, so to wait till this part of your life is to only strengthen you now and your past, plus to create a positive future for you and your partner. As if you were to get all tangled up in the "spider web" of rejection, heartache and premature sexual activity that you at a young age still cannot control, then surely you will spend the rest of your life in isolation with unnecessary fears and phobias of times gone by and rejection felt. We as humans are learning sponges, what we look at, touch, listen to, experience, love, hate, speak, feel, we absorb, this is why we (Allah's Creations) are made to be the highest of the highest in respect to what we are capable of doing and creating for ourselves in order to grow. But also, then made to be the lowest of the lowest, as we have such instincts which other creations have not... Like choice, judgmental feelings, the will to live, the will to die, the will to hate and the will to kill for the sake of killing and the will of revenge. "Animals kill only to survive, Humans kill because they can" One aspect of Islam that I first fell in love with is that it is not a single Culture Religion, Islam is "neutral" when it comes to a Cultural aspect, but with this it is made up of almost every Culture and background Ethnic Cultural influences that I have ever seen in any other so-called Religions that I have studied in the past. I used to be very scared and fearful of approaching other Cultures before I became a Practicing Muslim, but I get rather excited now when I meet a person (whatever the gender is) from another Cultural background. Allah (SWT) has made us all different and encased us in different shades of skin for many important reasons. The main reason would have been to see if "Man" would embrace his fellow Brother and Sister, no matter what the color of their skin or what language they spoke. But here we are destroying what he has created, we as a nation and as a world are turning our backs on what could actually save us all, this being to accept, adapt, promote and grow.